Blue Essense

Navigation

Home | .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address)

Members

Monthly Archives

Most recent entries

Syndicate

RSS 2.0
Atom

Site Credits

Design by:
BlogMoxie

Next entry: Een beetje zwanger?

Previous entry: Die is echt gek!

Mag het ietsje anders zijn?

Kunnen leerlingen ontsnappen aan de groepsdruk?

Nogal wat jongeren denken dat ze altijd hun eigen beslissingen nemen. Ze zijn hoogst verbaasd als ze te horen krijgen dat het dan wel opvallend is dat ze precies hetzelfde denken en doen als de groep waartoe ze horen. Wie als volwassene driekwart van zijn beslissingen neemt zonder af te gaan op wat anderen zeggen, is in mijn ogen al heel ver. Datzelfde van een jongere onder de 20 verwachten is veel te veel gevraagd. ?Onderzoek levert het volgende beeld op:”Jongeren zoeken vrienden die op henzelf lijken. Een jongere die zichzelf extravert en vriendelijk vindt, gaat op zoek naar vrienden met die eigenschappen. Dat is de conclusie van Maarten Selfhout, onderzoeker bij de Nederlandse Organisatie voor Wetenschappelijk Onderzoek (NWO).
Selfhout analyseerde de gegevens van twee langlopende onderzoeken onder jongeren. Hij kwam tot de conclusie dat vriendschap bij jongeren vooral draait om „ikke, ikke en nog eens ikke”. Ze zoeken leeftijdgenoten die wat karakter betreft hun spiegelbeeld zijn. „Bij jongere adolescenten speelde ook de muziekvoorkeur een grote rol. Jongeren met een voorkeur voor muziek die niet mainstream is zoals hiphop of metal, raken vaak bevriend met jongeren met dezelfde muzieksmaak”, aldus de onderzoeker.?Selfhout onderzocht ook wat voor invloed de vriendschappen op jongeren hebben. Hij ontdekte dat crimineel gedrag van jongens vaak toeneemt, als ze criminele vrienden hebben. Voor meisjes geldt dat niet. „Zij kunnen wel op een andere manier nadeel ondervinden van vriendschappen: zij lopen een hoger risico om depressief te worden als zij een lage kwaliteit van vriendschap ervaren. “[bron: Trouw]
Scherp gezegd: jongeren zijn als de dood om zich te binden aan mensen die anders zijn dan zijzelf. Anders-zijn wordt als vreemd, bedreigend, als iets wat hen onzeker maakt ervaren. Het onderzoek van Schelfhout doet me ook begrijpen, waarom we in de schoolhal steeds plukjes op elkaar lijkende mensen tegen kunnen komen. Een gothic die in een groepje kakkers verzeild raakt, ziet er hoogst ongelukkig uit.
Het wachten is op de werkelijk onafhankelijke vriendengroep. Die bestaat uit enkele kakkers die interesse hebben voor de ideeën en het gedrag van de gotic in de groep. De gothic kan uren bomen met de fanatieke NAC-supporter, die op zijn beurt weer een intense band heeft met het lesbische meisje in de groep. Het lesbisch meisje heeft een aparte band met de Marokkaanse die thuis altijd beweert dat homoseksualiteit vies is. Soms gaan ze niet met elkaar uit, maar ze zien elkaar wel om ervaringen uit te wisselen, elkaar te helpen bij de zaken die ieder moeilijk vindt ongeacht zijn voorkomen en kleding. Als ze wel uitgaan, doen ze ieder verbaasd staan die hen ziet, want de groep spreekt niet dezelfde taal: het gaat van Bredaas dialect naar aardappelkeelnederlands tot allochtone straattaal. En allemaal verstaan ze elkaar, omdat ze dat willen. Kleurrijk is de groep ook, zowel in huidskleur als in kleding. Het sobere zwart van de gothic is een fraai contrast met de bling-bling kleding van de Marokkaan. De NAC-kleuren steken mooi af tegen de Armani-outfit van de kakker.
Het zal wachten tot sint-juttemis worden. Een hallucinatie, een fata morgana, meer is het niet wat ik hierboven gedroomd heb. Wakker worden, jongen, het is weer tijd voor de grauwe werkelijkheid?Verschenen in De Keten, oktober 2009

{extended}

Posted by wim mathijssen on 04/02 at 04:00 PM
Permalink

buy name brand allegra allegra lusini allegralusini
allegra fexofenadine hcl or hci intuition by allegra goodman john donne
vwr allegra allegra tablets twice
name brand allegra online allegra for puppies
allegra bianca di asos allegra
break allegra 180 half split allegra brand online overnight
wilde allegra wilde s profile allegra cost medications
arosa allegra isla hohe promenade madonna allegra
allegra suspension conversion allegra brand without prescription
mixing allegra and ibuprofen allegra mcevedy wiki online
difference between claritin and allegra allegra lacarovana
richard allegra how to look ageless suzy allegra
dr allegra nj associates veronica allegra
what are allegra tablets allegra vertigo
allegra 6kr 50 grams residencia allegra en sabadell
santa allegra per allegra snc
allegra ale allegra pills cost
allegra immo prescription free allegra
adidas allegra men allegra laugh book by anne ford

Posted by elriyjry on 01/11 at 02:24 PM

diflucan propecia propecia finasteride effetti collaterali per
allegra sprachzentrum artritis septica instinct allegra
propecia incomplete dose propecia prescription
comprare propecia 1 mg propecia pharmacy online
hair thinning and propecia azathioprine propecia
propecia cheapest dedicated cheap propecia
telogen effluvium propecia male pattern baldness levitra online purchase propecia
mintop propecia propecia and weight gain saw palmetto
propecia pharmacy online propecia costs
italy propecia precio propecia com
bph or propecia buying propecia online
buy propecia cheap online propecia usps
buying real propecia without prescription propecia boots frontal hair loss
propecia to buy generic online propecia
schleichender propecia generic brand propecia buy
how to buy propecia without a prescription propecia directions for usage
sertraline propecia propecia pill cutter generic
allegra d 60 s 120 mg real allegra online
propecia health concerns drugs canadian propecia online
buy generic propecia cheap sexual problems propecia
propecia breakdown propecia presentacion
women s propecia side effects propecia rules
cialis niederlande propecia propecia london male pattern baldness
order propecia online without a prescription comprare buy propecia online

Posted by xuyjam on 01/11 at 02:40 PM

generic propecia prices propecia durch marcumar
generic propecia no prescription productos con finasteride comprar propecia
propecia prostate problems propecia cheap
propecia musculacion wirksamkeit propecia
propecia dubai hair transplant propecia report pics
propecia finpecia male pattern hair loss propecia 0 7
buy propecia on line propecia young men fda
propecia itch skin propecia finasteride risks
generic propecia online pharmacy bezug von propecia
stimula xenical propecia patanol cheapest generic propecia
propecia secondary effects information propecia crown usage
propecia aumento peso disfunzione erettile usos del propecia
test propecia male pattern hair loss donar sangre precio propecia
minoxidil oder propecia androgenetische alopezie svenson propecia
will propecia cost forever propecia generico 2009 effetti collaterali
shedding propecia approved propecia resultados

Posted by xomeytyd on 01/11 at 02:53 PM

propecia en brasil propecia 5 year results men treated
propecia vendo phentermine store buy propecia
does rogaine work and propecia propecia increased semen
propecia for cheap propecia tumore colon
buy propecia brand propecia acne male
dogs propecia around eyes propecia and anxiety male pattern baldness
propecia cost time propecia minox di
propecia malena sexual side effects use propecia to grow facial hair
propecia birth defects mg propecia ringworm
propecia im winter propecia papers
can you buy propecia over the counter buy brand propecia from supplier
propecia zyklus rx propecia
propecia donne di compra propecia effetti collaterali
propecia cantidad use rogaine and propecia hair loss
zelnorm coming back propecia prices for propecia
buy propecia medication by embark to generic link online propecia
pfizer and propecia propecia permanent sexual benefits
propecia discount propecia discount
how long during propecia starts to work will propecia side effects
propecia and nizoral shampoo generika propecia finasteride
propecia bariatric surgery impotence propecia side effects
cheap propecia without prescription buy xenical cheap propecia
que significa propecia propecia yahoo minoxidil
web md propecia drugs no prescription propecia online
propecia association propecia 3 month supply hair loss treatment
nebenwirkungen von propecia gegen haarausfall cheap propecia without prescription
how long do i have to use propecia tanning propecia
cheap propecia prices canada buy propecia
cimi propecia romario garantia de satisfaccion propecia
acne book guest org propecia site propecia cost buy
propecia contra minoxidil nortriptyline side effects propecia
recherche propecia propecia washington capitals
propecia for lady pilz propecia
propecia has stopped working propecia where to buy cialis
propecia causes high blood pressure leg pain propecia change body hair
cheats mit propecia buy propecia online
propecia y culturismo propecia how long male pattern hair loss
lowest price generic propecia canadian propecia 25 1 mg
propecia online shop propecia avodart glaxo smith kline

Posted by ilraufywv on 01/11 at 03:08 PM

hair loss breakthrough propecia propecia and hairline hair loss
6 propecia and rogaine propecia hair care
fenasteride propecia online propecia tramadol
propecia and rate bivirkninger propecia
should i use propecia effects propecia beim dackel
prix du propecia pharmacie prescription propecia
norvasc and propecia propecia vs generic
hair loss studies propecia rogaine propecia en monterrey
propecia rogaine results hair restoration surgery propecia wholesale
buy real propecia online propecia cheap no prescription
procain propecia cheapest propecia tablets
propecia generica cialis viagra kater propecia
propecia poems propecia vs cardura
propecia dauerwelle from germany propecia purchase
nhs propecia vs rogaine alternative zu propecia netdoktor de
rx propecia low price medication propecia hair transplant
propecia time to work hair loss treatment how expensive does propecia cost
buy propecia finasteride hair loss treatment buy propecia finasteride hair loss treatment
propecia with food may take propecia pro tag
propecia efficacia 5 alfa reduttasi propecia for sale
propecia discount coupon propecia well water
propecia grow hair 5 alpha reductase propecia without surveys
propecia default hair loss propecia candida
buy propecia book without prescription propecia satellite
propecia generic cheap boots propecia receding hairline
silica propecia silica propecia
propecia mattina alla sera propecia 5 year learning
versandapotheke propecia bestellen nerves and propecia
come propecia chemotherapy propecia
using propecia and rogaine thinning hair propecia psa prostate cancer
propecia gravidanza propecia pictures saw palmetto
nanogen propecia proscar 1mg propecia finasteride
propecia fegato farmacia combining synthroid and propecia
non prescription propecia will propecia work pill
propecia dubai buy propecia online now
sperm propecia side effects propecia drug prescription

Posted by ocxiizqu on 01/11 at 03:36 PM

generic propecia cheapest propecia bhp
best internet pharmacy to buy proscar proscar vs flomax avodart
2b proscar 2b proscar success stories hair loss
does proscar require a prescription wiki proscar finasteride
proscar order online drugstore proscar arzt
long term use proscar finasteride proscar 320
proscar for hair questions proscar krebs erektile dysfunktion
proscar topico proscar cut
online prescription proscar proscar propecia dosage
donate blood proscar finasteride proscar verses avodart
proscar oroscopo propecia lowest proscar prices
proscar and avodart prescribing proscar caduta capelli propecia
divide proscar proscar andorra farmacia
brand name proscar best price proscar original
proscar and alopecia proscar patent expiration
chibro proscar dutasteride proscar finasteride used
proscar o dutasteride purchase cheap proscar online
discount on proscar flomax and proscar contains
proscar dosage hair loss proscar embarazo merck sharp dohme
buy generic proscar online pharmacy proscar and acne saw palmetto
does proscar grow hairstyles buy proscar one a day
proscar caida cabello efectos secundarios proscar blind date
where can i get proscar without a prescription proscar finasteride 5mg male pattern baldness
proscar and sperm finasteride 5 mg proscar farmacia ipertrofia prostatica
proscar kohl canadian pharmacy proscar generic
order proscar online no prescription proscar tricologia
chibro proscar prix brand name proscar buy
picture proscar proscar daily price
chibro proscar effets secondaires generic propecia uk proscar
proscar eficacia proscar bipolar
proscar transaminasas proscar pygeum
proscar dental arret propecia chibro proscar
hair style photo proscar proscar online sale
buy proscar on line proscar treatment of bph
proscar toronto proscar online prescription
proscar effects on proscar finasterid behandlung
buy uk proscar online get proscar without a prescription

Posted by vyidyc on 01/11 at 04:01 PM

hallmark engagement albums razor albums
metal hammer best albums platinum albums list
childrens personalized photo albums jeffeson airplane albums
yolandita monge albums d r i albums
new upcoming albums eileen ivers albums
the source top albums top twenty albums uk
albums by slim shady 20 swiss france albums
albums online photo mysql photo albums
5x7 wedding photo albums pictues of metalica s albums
top english albums of 2008 luke bryant albums
all albums of led zeppelin all music releases and top 10 albums
billboard new albums 36 crazy fists albums
gravity kills albums gravity kills albums
top classical albums 2008 new releases singles or albums
john forte albums stamp albums for children
list of cd albums lorenzo goetz albums
metal albums torrents ohio players record albums
punk classic albums list dick wagner albums
ekin cheng albums gondwana albums
maxine nightingale albums mariah carrey albums
xhibit albums top country albums
top 30 heavy metal albums arc en ciel albums
personalied photo albums gary newman albums
ferrante and teicher albums last poets albums
top ten dylan albums amr diab new albums
the latest dance albums pastor albums
archival photo albums by generations music albums galactica
sought after psych albums haryanavi albums
indie albums 2009 the nekromantix albums
spm albums mp3 files rare john denver albums

Posted by yhudny on 01/11 at 04:06 PM

scorpions band albums large leather photo albums
scrapbooking mini albums beatles albums collectors
top 10 albums charts 1950 albums
albums next week release beastie boy albums
2008 hip hop albums releases news music albums
pasty cline albums progressive trance albums
the red chord albums metal hammer albums 2008
classic albums rio dvd soundgarden unreleased albums
hmv new albums frankie knuckles albums
malajube albums number of bob dylan albums
time s top 100 albums top ten blues albums
i nobili albums kolo albums sale
tyler james albums albums release
rb christmas albums budgie albums
china photo albums negramaro albums
steve earl albums host photo albums
new 2008 rap albums hillsong albums lyrics
ricky martin albums emiri miyamoto albums
find information creating family photo albums photo albums frame
rotting christ albums epic score albums
boys to men albums cd universe mice parade albums
moderato albums trivium albums
toxic albums moments albums
1980 s albums covers baby scrapbooking albums
journey albums songs best selling blues albums
albums must have chicago best selling albums
motown compilation albums vnv nation albums

Posted by avegkao on 01/11 at 04:20 PM

diflucan shop diflucan ever prescribed toenail fungas
where to buy diflucan without a prescription diflucan asthma wheezing
farmacologia diflucan diflucan serious side effects
diflucan sale drugstore diflucan for diaper rash
how to buy diflucan online clomid diflucan dostinex glucophage
how long diflucan com buy online 10 diflucan
where to buy diflucan online diflucan office
diflucan overgrowth buy diflucan forum
lowest diflucan price buy diflucan without health
diflucan nail fungus athlete s foot order cheap diflucan online
diflucan 200 ml doh diflucan
diflucan dosage tinea versicolor ureaplasma diflucan
worldwide diflucan tablets diflucan brand cheap
diflucan best price cheapest generic diflucan online
diflucan on line prescription diflucan on line prescription
diflucan adverse effects exhaustion oklahoma tax commission diflucan
diflucan kidney contraindications diflucan birth defects
zocor and diflucan white pasty discharge nioxin diflucan
diflucan walgreens cialis pfizer diflucan fluconazolo
diflucan el salvador lowest diflucan price
uk geocities com andkuk diflucan diflucan non prescription
diflucan google diflucan how does not work
diflucan hpv diflucan brand without prescription
diflucan zocor yeast infection diflucan
diflucan and tinea versicolor how see you take diflucan
diflucan rx diflucan tiredness
online prescription diflucan how long before diflucan takes influence
diflucan meds diflucan danger
diflucan class oral diflucan vagisil
diflucan cause breastfeeding online purchase diflucan
diflucan indication tinea versicolor diflucan brand buy
diflucan online no prescription diflucan fluconazole treatment
long does diflucan stay your body pillseasy com diflucan
diflucan posologia tinea pedis tick diflucan
free diflucan samples online celecoxib and alcohol fluconazole diflucan
diflucan for wyotech zocor diflucan information

Posted by havugac on 01/11 at 04:25 PM

Posted by ezakhegoy on 01/11 at 04:32 PM

prozac gatos trastornos del comportamiento order prozac overnight
prozac drug facts will prozac work for autism
prozac experimentos side effects prozac weightloss
prozac cheap generic buy prozac online pharmacy
prozac prescription drug lowest price prozac
prozac and down syndrome treat depression prozac smoking cessation
reasons to use prozac prozac pulvules fluoxetine hydrochloride
prozac ejaculation drug i buy prozac
how to buy prozac prozac dies effects
prozac backlash book listening prozac hyperactivity children symptoms
sam e with prozac prescription antidepressants remeron and prozac patient
pros and cons of prozac paxil zoloft prozac food bulimia nervosa
prozac and tylenol lexapro story of prozac nation
prozac how long serotonin syndrome prozac drugs obsessive compulsive disorder
donuts cheaper than prozac prozac and ms placebo group
buy prozac brand buy prozac brand
body of lies prozac prozac class action suit
beg for your prozac lyrics tool can prozac cause depression sertraline zoloft
where can i buy prozac without a prescription quitting abilify prozac
prozac dxm cough and cold prozac retention
prozac cardioneurogenic syncope deporte y prozac
prozac aerobicos what does prozac come from
tramacet prozac interaction acida prozac traduzione

Posted by ezzedaac on 01/11 at 04:50 PM

Page 58 of 58 pages ‹ First < 56 57 58

Commenting is not available in this channel entry.